Same Sex Marriage; Right or Wrong

Since the Irish voted to legalise same sex marriage the debate in Australia has almost reached boiling point within the political landscape.

The issue has polarised public opinion and has been suggested the silent majority oppose the move. However, there is no evidence yet to validate the claim.

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Politically there is a divide between the Liberal/National Coalition and its opposition the Australian Labor Party. The latter being for same sex marriage with the former, seemingly, against it.

Naturally the LGBT [Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender] lobbyists are active throughout the internet, media and beyond. What causes concern is the obvious attacks on those who oppose their views, professing homophobic attitudes.

One is not necessarily homophobic simply because they oppose same sex marriage!

In fact homosexuality need not impinge on heterosexual lives, need it? And vice versa. However there may well be good reasons to oppose same sex marriage. Lets look at a few of them.

Is it REALLY marriage? Calling something marriage does not make it marriage. Marriage has always been a covenant between a man and a woman which is by its nature ordered toward the procreation and education of children and the unity and well-being of the spouses. The promoters of same-sex “marriage” propose something entirely different. They propose the union between two men or two women. This denies the self-evident biological, physiological, and psychological differences between men and women which are complementary in marriage.

Does it violate natural law? Marriage is not just any relationship between human beings. It is a relationship rooted in human nature and thus governed by natural law.

Natural law’s most elementary precept is that “good is to be done and pursued, and evil is to be avoided.” By his natural reason, man can perceive what is morally good or bad for him. Thus, he can know the end or purpose of each of his acts and how it is morally wrong to transform the means that help him accomplish an act into the act’s purpose.

Any situation which institutionalizes the circumvention of the purpose of the sexual act violates natural law and the objective norm of morality.

What about the children? It is in the child’s best interests that he be raised under the influence of his natural father and mother. This rule is confirmed by the evident difficulties faced by the many children who are orphans or are raised by a single parent, a relative, or a foster parent.

The unfortunate situation of these children will be the norm for all children of a same-sex “marriage.” A child of a same-sex “marriage” will always be deprived of either his natural mother or father. He will necessarily be raised by one party who has no blood relationship with him. He will always be deprived of either a mother or a father role model.

Will it weaken public morality? In the name of the “family,” same-sex “marriage” serves to validate not only such unions but the whole homosexual lifestyle in all its bisexual and transgender variants.

Civil laws are structuring principles of man’s life in society. As such, they play a very important and sometimes decisive role in influencing patterns of thought and behavior. They externally shape the life of society, but also profoundly modify everyone’s perception and evaluation of forms of behavior.

Moral wrong into civil right? Homosexual activists argue that same-sex “marriage” is a civil rights issue similar to the struggle for racial equality in the 1960s.

This is false.
First of all, sexual behavior and race are essentially different realities. A man and a woman wanting to marry may be different in their characteristics: one may be black, the other white; one rich, the other poor; or one tall, the other short. None of these differences are insurmountable obstacles to marriage. The two individuals are still man and woman, and thus the requirements of nature are respected.

Same-sex “marriage” opposes nature. Two individuals of the same sex, regardless of their race, wealth, stature, erudition or fame, will never be able to marry because of an insurmountable biological impossibility.

Secondly, inherited and unchangeable racial traits cannot be compared with non-genetic and changeable behavior. There is simply no analogy between the interracial marriage of a man and a woman and the “marriage” between two individuals of the same sex.

Is it a sterile union? Traditional marriage is usually so fecund that those who would frustrate its end must do violence to nature to prevent the birth of children by using contraception. It naturally tends to create families.

On the contrary, same-sex “marriage” is intrinsically sterile. If the “spouses” want a child, they must circumvent nature by costly and artificial means or employ surrogates. The natural tendency of such a union is not to create families. Therefore, we cannot call a same-sex union marriage and give it the benefits of true marriage.

Does it defeat its own purpose? One of the main reasons why the State bestows numerous benefits on marriage is that by its very nature and design, marriage provides the normal conditions for a stable, affectionate, and moral atmosphere that is beneficial to the upbringing of children—all fruit of the mutual affection of the parents. This aids in perpetuating the nation and strengthening society, an evident interest of the State.

Homosexual “marriage” does not provide such conditions. Its primary purpose, objectively speaking, is the personal gratification of two individuals whose union is sterile by nature. It is not entitled, therefore, to the protection the State extends to true marriage.

Is it imposing new rules on society? By legalizing same-sex “marriage,” the State becomes its official and active promoter. The State calls on public officials to officiate at the new civil ceremony, orders public schools to teach its acceptability to children, and punishes any state employee who expresses disapproval.

In the private sphere, objecting parents will see their children exposed more than ever to this new “morality,” businesses offering wedding services will be forced to provide them for same-sex unions, and rental property owners will have to agree to accept same-sex couples as tenants.

Is it a ‘cutting edge’ sexual revolution? In the 1960s, society was pressured to accept all kinds of immoral sexual relationships between men and women. Today we are seeing a new sexual revolution where society is being asked to accept sodomy and same-sex “marriage.”

If homosexual “marriage” is universally accepted as the present step in sexual “freedom,” what logical arguments can be used to stop the next steps of incest, pedophilia, bestiality, and other forms of unnatural behavior? Indeed, radical elements of certain “avant garde” subcultures are already advocating such aberrations.

“The gay movement, whether we acknowledge it or not, is not a civil rights movement, not even a sexual liberation movement, but a moral revolution aimed at changing people’s view of homosexuality.” Homosexual activist Paul Varnell.

There is much being said on this topic, here we raise but a few questions no doubt there is much more to consider. There is little doubt that the points raised above will be countered by supporters of ssm. In the final analysis it should, like the Irish, be the people who decide if this is morally a good thing or indeed a bad one.



2 thoughts on “Same Sex Marriage; Right or Wrong

  1. Opinion is still not fact. But since we are on the subject, heterosexual marriages have failed the standard and created the ‘norms’ of divorce, adultery and the like. I really wish heterosexuals would take some responsibility for thier own marriages and damage to society since the beginning of time.


  2. Always believed that ‘Marriage’ was a societal device to control sexuality within a society. That is why marriage has ben around so long and been so successful &, by and large, respected; however with a little examination the current hoo hah has been about “Christian Marriage” which has always been about the control & regulation of gender roles. ‘gay’ marriage is seen by christians as a full frontal attack on their definition, both obvious & subliminal, hence the hoo hah. No ‘western’ politician on the right will go against the fundamentalist christian lobbyist & all right wing press support right wing politicians.


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